It's not always about you

I am learning so much in this life that always thinking about yourself doesn't get you:

Anywhere!

But when you think of others, it will come back to you; my spiritual father, Pastor Abbeam Ampomah Danso always says 'When you do good, you do it for yourself'. 

When you think of others with a kind heart, not expecting, and not doing it just for show, you will see at the time you least expect, somebody will remember you and it will be at the time you need it the MOST.

Has it happened to you before?

It's good to be a little selfish, in terms of taking care of yourself and your well being.. yourself comes first in some aspects, but it should not be COMPLETELY about you all the time! Too much of everything is bad; when was the last time you thought to check up on someone? When was the last time you helped someone in need? Offered a helping hand? A shoulder to lean on?

All of these things that seem very small, are actually the biggest things in the eyes of a lot of people. The fact that you have decided today, you are sacrificing yourself, your time, energy.. whatever the case maybe just for another person; it's more than a blessing.

We are living in a world where, unfortunately, people are caring less and less, and becoming more and more selfish-- but don't get me wrong, there are the minority of people that help and spend their time helping and supporting the wellbeing of others.

But think to yourself, what do you fall under?